well we've officially reached that time of the year,red & pink over takes the aisles at your local drugstore,your local wally world,target.every other commercial is ZALES,KAY'S or JARED'S. everybodies getting all excited,all boo'd up.loool
plans are being made,bouquets of flowers are being arranged,men are going outta there
minds wonder wth to do,why fems daydream of a day full of romance,it's all about me,not so much about you,give me candy,cards,give me jewels.it's VALENTINE'S DAY*whoop whoop whoop* funny i'm married and in all the time i have been i've never been counting down the days till that one that means being so called doted on,being showered with candy,card and whatever else may happen to appear.even in my dating i never got giddy,worked up,never sat drawing hearts,plucking pedals with thoughts of he loves me ,he loves me not's scrambling my brain receptors.i've been a romantic chick at heart at certain times in my life,more so on the real then anything else.the times i got caught up daydreaming,planning this life i wanted so badly in my head,life slapped me right out of my dream before i had the chance to seal the deal with a kiss to my dreams issued prince charming.not a hater of v-day but not a seeker of it either.more a treat the day as the rest,wake up,do my task,care for my daughter,chill till bedtime then call it a night.funny thing about v-day it's the one day that quite a few people that don't do as they should during the rest of the year flock to the nearest store,hoping that there last min gift and un-true,un-caring"i love you" will score them brownine points and chance to get in the panties or boxer briefs,tighty whitties,boxers whatever "your" so called man wears.i know that sounds harsh,trust me when i say (i thought long & hard about that statement)some would say don't give grief to embrace those that don't do the rest of the yr,that at least there trying but my thought is what "IF" the person your going to with all this takes everything,every bit of what your doing to heart.what happens when this one day,devoted to love passes by ? when that person goes back to there ways,that man or women is left with a shattered dream,a belief that will never be.just wishful thinking that took place.if your like that year around don't change,keep doing what you've been doing.i think the person will be mad yes but they'd respect you more for sticking to your guns verses you running game on them.
AND as i stated i'm no hater NOR a seeker of this day.more a gal that's made some observations and chooses to share them,constructive BUT REAL and honest.....
soooo have i asked for anything or am i looking forward to tomorrow ??? well to answer the whole ask for deal,i never ask for anything.i'm a girl that likes to get in the car and go get for herself.not only does this save me from getting something
i could potentially HATE but i won't feel guilty should the buyer and me have some kind of issue nor will it be held over my head if there is a argument.it puts me in a neutral place which a girl can get down with ;) longgggg time ago i learned unless it's a card,or food don't take it.most definitely if it's B-I-G or expensive. trouble looms with those items.it's just in our human nature to want back something we may have given if it's of great worth.the day will be carried out the way all my days do...what i don't get in the real i ALWAYS get in my dreams.sooo gifts,doting,all that stuff i can dream up.guess that's why this gal rather be sleeing than awake.nothing is off limts or unreal when dreaming.ciao you lovers,haters,and everything in between ;)
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